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Parent Wellbeing

A gentle, practical guide to emotional health, sleep loss, identity change, intrusive thoughts, birth trauma, relationships, support and urgent signs from pregnancy to preschool.

General information only. This guide does not replace medical, mental health, psychological, trauma or emergency support. Call Triple Zero (000) if anyone is in immediate danger.

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The calm version

Parent wellbeing is not a luxury. Becoming a parent can bring joy, love and meaning, and it can also bring grief, exhaustion, identity change, loneliness, anger, numbness, trauma and anxiety. Getting help early is strong parenting, not failure.

Not luxuryYour wellbeing shapes family safety and coping.
Mixed feelingsLove and struggle can exist together.
Rest mattersSleep, food, water and recovery are protective.
Speak itScary thoughts and symptoms should not stay secret.
Act fastSafety risks and psychosis symptoms need urgent help.

First Years principles

  • Mental health symptoms can happen during pregnancy or after birth, and can affect birthing parents, dads, partners and carers. [1][2][3]
  • Sleep, support, food, water, physical recovery, connection and reduced load are not extras. They are part of staying well.
  • Intrusive or scary thoughts are not a reason to hide. A GP, psychologist, psychiatrist, midwife, child and family health nurse, PANDA or COPE can help you make sense of them. [2][4]
  • Call Triple Zero (000) if there is immediate danger, thoughts of harming yourself, baby or someone else, psychosis symptoms, severe confusion, hallucinations, delusions, mania, family violence or anyone is unsafe. [2][5][6]

General information only. This guide does not replace medical, mental health, psychological, trauma or emergency support. Call Triple Zero (000) if anyone is in immediate danger.

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How this guide is organised

Designed for exhausted parents

You do not need to read this guide in order. If you are distressed now, start with the urgent help page, scripts, support map or printable tools.

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Fast safety guidanceUrgent help decision pageEmergency plan and message card
Words for asking helpScripts pagesText messages and GP scripts
A calmer day planDaily minimum plan and sleep survival planDaily minimum plan
Relationship load supportRelationships and mental loadMental load conversation sheet
Birth or trauma supportBirth trauma pageBirth trauma appointment notes
ResourcesAustralian resources and toolsSupport circle

Suggested page-by-page structure

  • Cover with clickable table of contents.
  • Quick summary and wellbeing timeline.
  • Core topics: transition, sleep, mood, anxiety, depression, intrusive thoughts and trauma.
  • Family situations, relationships, support map and daily plan.
  • Safety: burnout, rage, urgent help and scripts.
  • Tables, FAQs, printable tools, Australian resources and references.

Visual ideas used through the guide

  • Mood zones.
  • Support circles.
  • Decision tables.
  • Script cards.
  • Timeline map.
  • Checklist pages and printable worksheets.

General information only. This guide does not replace medical, mental health, psychological, trauma or emergency support. Call Triple Zero (000) if anyone is in immediate danger.

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The full guide includes 34 pages, printable tools including weekly mood check, support circle, parent rage safety plan, GP appointment notes, trusted resource links and safety guidance. It is part of the First Years first 2000 days library.

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